It's been a year since I've posted anything here. I guess I didn't have anything to say. Well all that has changed for me. I'm fighting for a longer life right now. Yes, the big C, Cancer has caught up with me.
My story starts back in 2021 during our year of lock down due to Covid. I went to my primary Doctor for a normal check up as I do every 3 months. I'm type two diabetic, therefore my blood work gets checked on that schedule. While there I told my Physician's Assistant I was concerned by some vaginal bleeding, a concern when you're post-menopausal. She suggested I make an appointment with a genecologist. From this point I'm going to outline the time frame for you:
February 2021 - Saw a genecologist.
March 2021 - had an ultrasound
April 2021 - I went back to genecologist for results and consultation. Her recommendation was to have a biopsy. I was told I would get a call to set up an appointment at the hospital.
This is where things went wrong, I never got a call from anyone. Also at this time (May 2021) I found out that my son Bob was diagnosed with cancer. The next months were some of the worst of my life. He passed away in September and I was devastated. As you might imagine, I wasn't thinking about me and my health. In other words, I blew it off. I had plenty of excuses, must be covid related reason for hospital not calling was the one I used the most.
Jump forward to 2022 - Another appointment with my primary. He asked me about my original concerns regarding my gynecological problems. I told him I never got a call from anyone and I wasn't too thrilled with the Doctor I saw anyway. He recommended another Doctor and urged me to make an appointment. I did because now my discomfort has increased to add pain to the mix.
April 2023 - First appointment with Dr. Sutherland. His recommendation was a biopsy. I agreed to have it done at Community.
June 28, 2023 - Checked into Same day surgery and had the biopsy done.
July 5, 2023 - appointment with Dr. Sutherland for results. Biopsy is positive for Cancer. Referred me to Dr. Hackett for further treatment.
July 13, 2023 - First appointment with Surgeon, Dr. Hackett. He recommended complete hysterectomy.
July 26, 2023- Went to Community for pre op testing.
August 8, 2023 - Checked into Hospital for surgery. Things didn't go as planned. My surgery was more complicated, Dr. Hackett couldn't do the laparoscopic/robotic procedure. My hystorectomy was done the old fashioded way. My stay in the hospital was 4 days.
August 16, 2023 - Follow up appointment with Dr. Hackett. My prognosis was not good. My cancer has spread outside the uterus. Dr. Hackett referred me to and Oncologist, Dr. Tang.
August 24, 2023 - First appointment with Dr. Tang. I liked him right away because he didn't hold back on the reality of what I'm up against. There's no cure but my condition is treatable to extend what time I have left.
Sept. 8, 2023 - Appt. at Community Outpatient dept. to have port implanted. This is for easier administration of Chemo drugs. The actual procedure took about an hour. It was uncomfortable but I was mildly sedated and alert.
Sept. 11, 2023 - Back to Community Outpatient dept. for a CT Scan. This was to establish a base line for future scans. Hopefully future scans will show improvement after receiving chemo.
Sept. 18, 2023 - First day of Chemo treatment. Reported to Infusion Center at 8:00. The center is very well run and everything was going smoothly. Around 1:00 pm I had an allergic reaction to one of the drugs. The staff were incredible and reacted immediately. Treatment was cancelled and I was transported to the ER. I was checked out there and it was determined it was indeed a reaction to the drug.
Sept. 25, 2023 - Reported to Infusion Center to start again. Everything went well this time. A replacement was ordered and I received my full chemo treatment. I will be going every Monday for how ever long it takes to receive treatment.
This brings me up to date on my timeline. So far I haven't had any side effects from my first chemo treatment. Keeping my figures crossed to keep it that way.
I know this has been long, but hopefully even if it helps only one person going through something like me, it will be worth it.
If I can give one good piece of advice it's this, Don't be afraid to seek treatment for anything abnormal with your health. Your life could depend on it.
I will try my best to update my blog at least once a week.
I would like to thank my Family for all their support. Especially my son- in- law, Denis Healy for his excellent professional advice and encouragement. Not too many men would attend Female Drs. appointments with them, but he goes with me whenever he can. He also encouraged me to write this blog.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. Sending healing thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteGail stay strong ! Was so glad you were mom’s roommate and felt grew closer to you during this time ! You are strong and have a lot going for you and a strong family & friends foundation to back you! ❤️🥰🙏🤞
ReplyDeletePraying for good outcome
ReplyDeleteGail, I truly know what you are going through. If you need to talk, I am always here for you. You are in my prayers every night.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers Aunt Gail ❤️
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